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The rules

Community Guidelines

Perzik gives adults a lot of freedom.

What are the Perzik community guidelines?

Perzik gives adults a lot of freedom. That only works when you give everyone else that same freedom, so there are boundaries.

So there are boundaries.

Don't be a creep

Don't repeatedly contact people who aren't interested, sexualise conversations they didn't ask for, or treat vulnerability as an opening.

Yes, we're actually putting that in writing.

  • Don't repeatedly contact someone who isn't interested.
  • Don't turn every conversation sexual because someone posts nude pictures.
  • Don't send people things they haven't asked to receive.
  • Don't treat someone's vulnerability as an opportunity to push their boundaries.

Read the room.

And when in doubt, ask.

No means no. Stop means stop. A lack of response isn't an invitation to try harder.

  • No means no.
  • Stop means stop.

A lack of response isn't an invitation to try harder.

And someone's previous interest doesn't guarantee their future interest.

Don't judge people's bodies

You don't have to find everyone attractive. You also don't have to announce it.

There are enough places online dedicated to telling people what's wrong with their bodies.

We don't need another one.

You don't have to find everyone attractive.

You also don't have to announce it.

Respect people's privacy

Don't expose anonymous members, share their content off Perzik without permission, or use what they told you to cross a boundary.

Don't try to expose anonymous or pseudonymous members.

Don't share people's content outside Perzik without their permission.

Don't use information someone shares with you to cross boundaries they deliberately put in place.

Label sexual content

You have freedom over what you post. Other people deserve freedom over what they see.

Use the appropriate labels when posting more explicit content.

Being here is not a right

Perzik is a private community. Being allowed to join doesn't give you an unconditional right to stay forever.

If you repeatedly ignore boundaries, harass people, violate privacy or generally make the community worse for everyone around you, we can remove you.

"But I didn't technically break this exact sentence in the rules" isn't the standard we're aiming for.

Be kind and be respectful.